Counting Your Blessings

Romanian Family

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The last few years have been difficult for many families. A sluggish economy costs jobs, cuts paychecks and limits the amount of money we have to spend on entertainment, clothing, vehicles and other things we want. It is easy to focus on the things we don’t have, forgetting the tremendous amount we do have. Try these ideas:

  1. Use the time you used to spend eating out, going to movies or other entertainment venues to bond in different ways. Cooking dinner together and playing board games at home is more fun and costs less.
  2. Set aside time each month to consider what you’re grateful for and share it with the family. For example, the car may be a few years old, but it always gets us to soccer practice! There is always something good to focus on.
  3. Think of things you can tackle as a family to save money. For family movie night, you could get a rental instead of heading to the theater. Think of things your family can do to save cash for something you’ll all enjoy.
  4. Remind each other that you still have the most important things: each other. Any person who just lost a loved one understands the importance of relationships, even it means a smaller home or fewer trips to the mall.
  5. Be thankful for your freedoms. People in many other countries, such as the Kazakhstan Democracy have worked hard for the freedoms given to us in America freely.

It may seem like a sacrifice, but there are advantages to having less money in the bank. Actually, if you use the opportunity, your family can see benefits that were never possible when finances were good.

Creating Family Memories

As a couple, you bonded and charted a path of togetherness. When you add a child or children in the mix, you started to create loads of family traditions in holidays, vacations and day-to-day living. As the children age and grow more independent, parents often become complacent and trod down well-worn roads by repeating past times together.

What one person considers a traditional annual family vacation may be perceived by another as the same boring and lackluster resort. There is always time to spice things up and chart some new courses.

Instead of going the traditional route with theme parks and cruises, try an adventure holiday. Ride the range with real cowboys and move cattle like they did in the old west. Visit a random city and become experts in its unique history and architecture. Find unique adventures in your own city by pretending to be a tourist. Take a haunted tour of the ghostly houses in your town.

Traditional vacation spots such as Las Vegas make a great destination with older children. If they are of age, the entire family can enjoy nightclubs, gambling and entertainment together. Before venturing out to Las Vegas, take some time online to discover sites that offer a casino bonus. This way you and your family can practice your gambling skills long before your plane arrives.

As long as you are all together enjoying the fun, it’s time well spent. Even if things go wrong and catastrophe strikes, you’ll always have stories about the time it went to heck in a hand basket.

There is time to build new family memories so don’t delay.

 

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